The Wedding Photographer Pre-Wedding Meeting: What to Cover
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The wedding photographer pre-wedding meeting: the 30-minute conversation that makes the wedding day go smoothly — the agenda, the questions, and the order.
The pre-wedding meeting with your photographer is the most-photographed 30 minutes of the wedding planning process. Done well, it removes 80% of the day-of confusion. Done badly, you spend the morning of your wedding answering questions you could have answered three weeks ago. Here is the agenda — 8 things to cover, in the right order — that we use on every wedding.
Wedding photographer pre-wedding meeting — Liva Paseka Photography
When to have it
2-4 weeks before the wedding. Earlier and you'll forget half of it; later and there's no time to fix anything. In person if you can, video call if you can't, phone call if you must. The medium doesn't matter; the timing does.
Couple meeting photographer at a venue — Liva Paseka Photography
The 8-point agenda
(1) The day-of timeline (confirm start, finish, key moments), (2) The group shot list (hand over the printable list), (3) The venue walk-through (where will the formal photos go?), (4) The first-look decision (do you want one?), (5) The family dynamics (anyone we need to know about?), (6) The must-have shots (anything specific?), (7) The don't-shoot list (anything you don't want?), (8) The wet-weather plan (where do we go if it rains?). 30 minutes, 8 topics, 3-4 minutes each.
The timeline — confirm in writing
The single most-photographed document of the day. The photographer needs: ceremony start, ceremony end, confetti, canapés, group shots, wedding breakfast, speeches, first dance, end of coverage. Anything missing creates a gap. Confirm in writing (email is fine) the day after the meeting.
Wedding planning notebook — Liva Paseka Photography
The group shot list — hand it over
Bring the printable list. The photographer will keep a copy in their camera bag. They will run the show on the day. You should not be running the show on the day. This is the single biggest gift you can give yourself.
The first-look decision
A 'first look' is a private moment between the couple, photographed, before the ceremony. Some couples love it; some hate it. There is no right answer. Decide in advance — don't decide at 11am on the day.
The family dynamics
Divorced parents? Estranged siblings? In-law drama? Tell your photographer. The last thing you want is the photographer asking the wrong person to be in the wrong photo. Two minutes of awkward conversation now saves ten minutes of awkward situation on the day.
The wet-weather plan
If it rains, where do the formal photos go? Where does the confetti happen? Where does the group shot happen? Most venues have an indoor backup. Confirm it. Photographers in the UK shoot in the rain as a matter of course — but they need to know where the indoor backup is.
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